Using The Law Of Attraction To Locate Your Perfect Partner Part 1

Using the Law of Attraction…

You are not alone in making poor dating or relationship selections. The majority of us do it sooner or later in our lives. Depressingly enough, some people continue performing it for our entire lives! I was in significant danger of continuously repeating my romantic relationship mistakes, I gave the issue a lot of thought, mostly for my self-preservation! I believe you can find two major reasons for why we have problems finding our perfect partner or true love. e.

First of all, we quite often have negative behavior patterns which we repeat over and over. An example of this might be emotional unavailability, that makes a genuine connection challenging. Another might be low confidence therefore you put others wants above yours, so you will never be satisfied. Another factor to consider is not emphasizing what we want. We don’t really know what we want which means that we wind up having default relationships that will not support us as individuals.

Prosperity affirmations

Often, both of these work in combination. You may be repeating the damaging behaviour patterns of an parent, as an example a controlling mother or father. You experience this behavior growing up and as an alternative to focusing on what you want, a supportive and non-judging partner, you concentrate on what you do not want… a controlling one. Regrettably, if our thoughts are centered on what we don’t want, that is what we are almost certainly to get.

An additional challenge to meeting the perfect partner is the fact that it is really common to place too much emphasis on the qualities your true love will have, without looking inside ourselves. Consider it this way…if what you need is a partner who’s really accessible emotionally, how probable is it that you will attract them if you’re emotionally unavailable? You will need to recognize that you need to be the individual you need to be before you attract your soul mate.

Around a year ago I ended a very destructive romantic relationship which lasted nearly all of my 20s. Everyone from my family, to my colleagues to my friends were delighted. They had all noticed that my ex partner had not been for me. He held me back as opposed to being a encouraging and loving presence in my life. As soon as I was out of the relationship I made a really serious declaration to myself, that i was going to be alone until I felt ready for any relationship.

That was probably the best relationship decision I had made up until that time in my life! I didn’t understand it at that time, but I realize if I had met somebody else at that point I would have fallen in to the exact same negative cycle. We create our personal circumstances. We create by way of our focus and thoughts. This concept is definitely an incredibly powerful piece of knowledge. This means that I alone was responsible for attracting a controlling partner in to my experience.